Do You Know Where You are Going?

More and more as I encounter people I find they don’t have a story about where they are going.  They are drifting through their life and career and not producing outcomes.  They can only see time in very short horizons and this greatly impacts their moods.

In my last blog I wrote about time and, because it’s so important, I am again.  Have you noticed how some people seem able to produce so much more than others and yet they don’t have any more time?  What they are managing first is themselves.  Yes, you first must face the truth, absolute truth, about the Self you are.

There are 7 questions of the Self as specified by The Aji Network (www.aji.com);

  1. What do I care about?
  2. What do I believe?
  3. How do I believe?
  4. What is right and wrong?
  5. What are virtues and vices?
  6. What is a good life?
  7. What do I share with others?

Answering these questions is the beginning to specifying where you are going.  If you don’t know the answers to these questions for your Self – get to work and write them out.  Work with your spouse to get clear about where you going as a couple and how you answer these questions.  If there is a big gap between what you and your significant other believe, you will have trouble in the very near future.

Let’s say you are now clear and have answers to those questions.  You still have to build a narrative about your ambitions – lifestyle, financial and business. Most powerful is to specify your ambitions in that sequence not the other way around.  Again most people I encounter are in a story about the business they are in, the money they make and therefore the lifestyle they can afford.  Wouldn’t your life be much more filled with passion if you started by specifying a lifestyle you are out to produce and actually go for it?

Still, it does not end there.  You must follow through.  It is not only the backswing and the impact that determine good strokes in tennis, but also the following through.  In other words, the course, the speed and trajectory of the ball are partly governed by what the racket does after impact.  Analogously, the boxer learns to aim his blows, not at the point of contact, but somewhat beyond it; and the karate master practices similar methods.  The same rule holds in many other forms of experience.  People of understanding do not aim at actions so much as through them; others, who desist from effort at the supposed moment of completion, often complete nothing at all and almost never learn from their success or failure.

These high-achievers seem to outperform everyone and produce at extraordinarily high rates.  They manage their time differently and hold the following practices better than most;

  • Fulfill painful obligations as soon as possible
  • Schedule errands and minor chores together rather than separately
  • Do difficult things before easy things
  • Avoid petty disagreements, and do not become upset when others foment them
  • Make minor decisions quickly, and put them out of your mind
  • In general, do not concern yourself with trivia
  • Refuse, politely but decisively, to accept involvements that would distract you from the purposes you value
  • Seek advice from experts, but otherwise avoid projects whose success depends on the charity or competence of others
  • Work regularly, but rest and exercise as much as you work
  • Ensure that every important activity receives a large and uninterrupted period of time
  • Sell, give away, or otherwise dispose of your television set
  • Keep a personal file
  • Keep a record of your progress by days, weeks, months and years

Do these things and you will increase your capacity and productivity.  Do them with intention, commitment, direction and ambition and you will be living a life of passion.

Need more Time?

I’ve been reflecting about time.  What is time and where does it come from?  After all, there is eternity, so why worry about time?  And then when I say, be “on time”, why is it that everyone’s interpretation is not the same as mine?

Then there is that darn internal clock.  Wait, now that I think about it, I’ve never seen that clock on my x-rays.  There is evidence that our external world has a major influence on our internal clock, and that no two internal clocks tick at the same rate.  In fact they are all different. In 1905 Albert Einstein published his theory of Special Relativity – showing that wristwatches of two observers in motion relative to one another will measure time differently.

You’ve heard the term, “time flies when you’re having fun”.  It’s true, isn’t it?  When you’re having fun, it seems like a moment, a flash.  On the other hand, that time in the dentists chair – - well it never seems to end, even if for a minute.  It does appear that our sense of time is affected by outside stimuli and is therefore highly mutable.  Perhaps it is the knowledge of death that makes time so precious for us, knowing there is a physical end.  And yet the universe continues to go – forever and ever.

Time appears to have been invented in language for the sake of coordination.  In agricultural times it helped to know when to harvest crops, store them and prepare for winter.  The seasons were a signal that change was coming and thus we gave names to winter, summer, spring and fall.  We can count on these changes year after year and this helps us prepare for the changing environment.  This sense of rhythm and timing is calming to humans and provokes a dialogue that we can control our environments.  Although “time waits for no man” so I’m not sure we can control our environment.  We can certainly anticipate and prepare for changing situations in a timely manner to avoid threats and mitigate risks.

How about “killing time”.  Did you ever just kill time by watching the grass grow?  What does this mean, killing time?  I think it means doing nothing.  Perhaps we should count minutes by sensations and experiences instead of calendars and clocks.  Have you ever tried to manage time?  Good luck.  It cannot be done.  You can manage your commitments and obligations, but not time.  Need more time – - buy another clock.

I am committed to produce value.  With this declaration comes what I will commit to and what I will not commit to.  I’m evaluating things that I’ve held that now appear to be without value and even meaningless.  I’m quitting those things because they are a waste of time.  What I have to offer is my capacity for learning, for teaching, for loving, for contributing, for play, for exercise, for leading, for following, and more.  As I examine my use of capacity and organize how I will use the time I have life gets less complex.  I can focus on what I really care about and drop all those things that don’t kill time but kill me.

How about you?  Are you focused and spending time on the things that really matter?  Have you noticed that some people who have the same amount of time as you do produce much more?  The velocity required to produce a good life in this marketplace is higher than ever.  But it’s not about more time – it is about knowing what you care about, staying focused on that only and moving at a pace with much more velocity than most people accept.

Know what you care about, shed everything else, move quickly and focus only on the important things and you will find you have “more time”.

 

 

 

Another new year with old resolutions?

Happy New Year!

Yes another year has just completed and a new one has begun.  It’s a great time to declare new intentions and we feel refreshed as we abandon all those “old” projects from last year that we never finished.  They probably weren’t worthwhile anyway.

 But wait.  My list seems to include some of those “old” projects.  Why do I still have them? I want a clean start, a fresh slate and most importantly forgiveness for all those commitments not met.  I was not looking to cut and paste from last year.

 I was recently reading  a post by Jene Luciani called “The Top 10 Reasons You Don’t Stick to Your Resolutions”.  See if any of these sound familiar to you.

1 – Going it alone

If you’re trying to do something alone it’s much more difficult.  You know how you show up at the gym because you hired a trainer?  Create accountability and make it public.

  2 – Extremely lofty resolutions

If your resolutions are too big there is a good chance you will fail.  Scale it down to something you can act with.  Don’t make this years resolution to solve world peace.

 3 – Giving up too early

It’s difficult to change practices.  It’s my experience it takes 6 months to embody new practices.  If you forget or get discouraged just start again – don’t quit.

 4 – Lack of capacity

If you just generated a list, do you know how much of your capacity it will take to produce each item on the list?  Again break it into smaller, manageable increments.  Daily if possible.

 5 – See expense and not investment 

If all you see is the expense and no return it’s likely you will stop.  Look for the return you are producing and assess whether it is worthwhile.  Perhaps there are less expensive ways to produce the same outcome.

 6 – Fantasies

If you’re resolutions are not realistic then they won’t happen.  You won’t produce $10 million in the first quarter and you also won’t lose 100 pounds in the first quarter.  This also relates back to time where people won’t face the time it takes to produce a satisfactory result.

7 – Lack of a plan

Do you have a plan of action – really?  Show me.

 8 – Lack of honesty

Be honest with yourself.  Don’t do it because you “should”.  Do it because it consistent with your values, intentions and ambition.  It’s the only way you will be able to hold it.

9 – Wrong perspective

Focus on your strengths, talents and virtues and not your failures and weaknesses.  How can you leverage your strengths for this year and complement them with a powerful configuration of other ambitious people?

 10 – Lack of confidence

What is missing for you to be confident? Once you can identify what’s missing you can address it.  Look for evidence of improvement so you can stay mobilized.

OK  – so now we know why we might have failed last year and what to avoid this year.  But don’t despair there is a new year to address, so get to it.  Put together a plan and focus on the process and your practices and not the end goal.  You can only produce change by holding your new practices.  Produce an environment that is conducive to accomplishing your goals.  If weight loss is your goal get rid of those chocolate chip cookies you love at night.

 Stay out of harms way and remove anything that will prohibit your success.  Over time your mood and enthusiasm will wane.  Remind yourself about why you made this commitment in the first place.  When you falter start again, and again.

  I started a journal last year for reflection and focus.  In it I start each day by writing 3 things I’m grateful for and 3 things I want to accomplish that day.  It helps me be peaceful and focused throughout the day.  If I stick to it at the end of 90 days I have accomplished 270 things on my plan.  Now there is an accomplishment and it will have me well on my way to meeting my new year’s resolutions.

 Happy New Year!

The Practice of Projects

I learned many years ago about the practice of projects and why this is important.  I’ve often talked about the importance of roles and how roles come from someone holding a set of concerns.  Another part of any role is the separation of standard practices from projects.

As you plan your week you hold certain practices that you do every day, every half-day, every hour or every 15 minutes.  Planning is one of them, or perhaps I should say planning needs to be one of your ongoing practices.  Practices are actions we give a name to.  Planning would be one of those practices. Selling is a named practice, as are accounting, marketing and many others.  We name them to make them easy to identify and to help in being rigorous to embody the actions required for a successful outcome.

Practices can be adopted for low cost and efficiency.  Other times practices must to be invented so they fit your situation and your enterprise.  Budgeting is a practice that has similar fundamental elements and the actions that make up the practice often are different between companies.  You can print financial statements but you need to design and execute the practice called budgeting.  Once you establish a standard practice the key is to hold it.  You don’t drop it or forget it or find ways to excuse your lack of discipline.  Holding your standard practices is everything.  If you are missing an outcome look for the missing or dropped practices.

How do you invent and design or adopt new standard practices?  You specify a project.  Do you know your standard practices and can you list them by name and frequency?  Do you also know your current projects and can you list them by name and completion date?  If your answer to these questions was no, you cannot fulfill your role.

I’m going to assume for this writing that you can see why holding practices is essential.  The result of not holding practices is people drift through life and business and they are dangerous – but what about projects and why are these important?  One answer is that not all practices work and when they don’t work you need to change them.  How you change a practice is to specify a project.  If you have a set practice for eating and exercising and you are not producing the results you committed to, then you need to change your practices.  Since you’re not sure what to do you specify a project with a start date and finish date, which could end when you say, “here are the new practices I’ll hold for the next 6 months”.  As part of that project you meet with other people who are successful in the practice for eating and exercising.  You speak with experts in the field and may need to search for new equipment, facilities or markets.  All of those actions would be in the project plan.

Things don’t change on their own.  If you want or need to change something it takes a project.  We invent projects for the sake of changing things.  Projects are also costly.  You need to move through the actions with velocity and finish them.  Do not put yourself or your enterprise into the “never ending” project list.  You will find you are using all available resources and not producing the new situation – like being on a treadmill forever.  A rule of thumb is to have only 3 main projects in play at any one time.  When you finish one add another.  There is no winner for loading up with the most projects.

Projects have roles – 4 of them that cover the concerns of projects.

  • Holder; keeps the project relevant to the company mission and holds the outcome and purposes are worth the investment
  • Specifiers; could be several people who say what a “win” is for this project.  The win could be financial, market share, competitive advantage,etc.
  • Designers; they put together the plan.  What are the interim situations and sequence of actions required for success
  • Fulfiller; usually called the project manager.  This person manages the actions and commitments to keep everything moving with the appropriate velocity.

If any of these roles are missing the project will fail.

I see people make projects plans that are overly complex.  The best plans are simple that everyone has access to and can follow.  Make the plan public where appropriate so everyone involved can help monitor it.  Before you ever start have a kick-off meeting with anyone involved or who is impacted by the project so everyone knows what he or she are committing to.  Depending on the complexity of your business you may need a sophisticated software program.  In many other cases a word document might just do fine.  At minimum you need to say who is doing the action, what they are doing, when the action will be complete and who needs to know it is complete.  Always put the action in the appropriate sequence.

Projects are dynamic so be prepared to change the interim situations and actions in order to produce the ultimate outcome or end purpose.  We meet as frequently as required to shift action in order to produce the outcome we committed to.  It’s also a time to assess if the project is still relevant.  If not, drop it.

Make a start today.  Separate standard practices you hold and projects you are committed to.  Check that each project has a plan and the roles are clear.  Then move with great velocity – 90 days or less on every project.

 

Time for a Financial Health Check-up

Financial statements are very powerful and necessary to assess financial health.  I’ve taught workshops on using financial statements effectively.  Mostly business owners attend but every now and then somebody who is not a business owner attends and they ask the question – should I be here?  I don’t own my own business so I’m not sure this is for me.

My response – this is absolutely for you.  You are your own enterprise and need to know about your Income Statement, Balance Sheet and Cash flow – don’t you?  Always there is this moment of pause while they realize what I’ve just said to them and the importance of it.  Are you not working to produce an income statement for the enterprise called “YOU” that allows you to save and invest in order to produce a strong Balance Sheet?  Of course you are – - even if you don’t know this.

Let’s talk about the purpose of the Income Statement.  The purpose of the Income Statement is to produce a strong Balance Sheet.  There is some moment in your life where you will be living off your Balance Sheet.  If it does not seem critical to you today, it will in your future.  Your Balance Sheet will be the source of your future income so it makes sense to make it as strong as possible – right?  The other purpose of the Income Statement is to allow you to make assessments about current situations in your business and to anticipate future situations.  The Income Statement is a collection of assertions about financial transactions arranged in such a way to reveal the results of the underlying policies, principals and philosophies.  The way to a strong Balance Sheet is first a strong Income Statement.

What you watch and manage on the Income Statement are revenues, gross margins and net income.  Gross margins reflect how powerful and valued your offers are in the marketplace.  In a commodity market where offers are priced and bid the gross margins are usually low.  In a market where your offers are highly valued you price it accordingly and higher margins reflect this higher value.  Always what you’re managing on an Income Statement is the net income.  It’s not revenues and it’s not gross margin other than how the margins contribute to net income.  Can you see that you’re always working to maximize your net income?

The Balance Sheet is an assessment about capacity to produce future income.  It’s arranged into assets and liabilities.  An asset is only an asset if you use it in such a way that it increases your capacity to generate effective action.  When I encounter business owners they normally will discuss their Income Statement and have little to say about the Balance Sheet.  I always begin by looking over the Balance Sheet.  It tells me a story about the strength and sustainability of the enterprise.  A weak Balance Sheet will eventually destroy the enterprise.  A strong Balance Sheet can sustain an enterprise for a long time through difficult situations.

One of the great tools to use with a Balance Sheet is ratio analysis.  The important ratios to use with a Balance Sheet include working capital, liquidity, net worth, return on assets and return on investment.  By using ratios you can assess the relative strength of your Balance Sheet against competitors or the industry standards.  For instance the working capital ratio is also know as the current ratio.  It addresses whether a business has enough current assets to meet the payment schedule of its current debts.  The formula is divide current assets by current liabilities.  A quick rule is that a ratio of 2:1 is generally accepted as a sign of strength.  However, this depends on the nature of the business and the current strategies.  If you’re not using ratio analysis in your business and life I strongly suggest you adopt it as a practice.  Choose the ones most powerful for your current and future situation.

Liabilities on the Balance Sheet are obligations or duties you take on to ensure an asset remains available, maintains its capacity or increases its capacity.  What comes first the asset or the liability?  The answer is the liability since any asset always requires investment first.  Are you taking care of your assets by willingly being responsible for the appropriate liabilities?

The third financial statement is the Cash Flows Statement.  It shows changes in cash positions over an accounting period and together with the other two financial statements helps to give a very clear picture of the financial health of an enterprise.  Profits are not the same as cash and the lack of positive cash flow will prohibit any enterprise from succeeding. There are three main categories on this Cash Flow Statement which shows where cash is coming from and where it is going to; operations, investment, financing.  While it’s good to know about and use this formal statement, I also like a direct cash flow.  This is a simple statement of cash in and cash out projected forward.  This helps you to anticipate cash shortages or surpluses and to then develop a plan of action.

I recommend you put together a pro-forma set of financial statements.  Pro-forma means to predict what is going to happen and not what has already happened.  What does your Income Statement look like for 2013?  Do you have sufficient revenues, gross margin and net income.  Will you strengthen your Balance Sheet by the end of 2013 so the enterprise can sustain difficult times?  Finally is the Cash Flow sufficient to sustain the business through the year?

A final word on positive cash flow and profit.  Never talk yourself into accepting that losses or negative cash flow is OK.  Always manage your business and your life to produce positive cash flow and positive profits.  In today’s global marketplace you can structure your business to make money every month by building a flexible organization.  The alternative is far too risky.

You Don’t “See” with your Eyes

My father was an ophthalmologist.  Growing up it seemed natural to me to know a lot about the construction and mechanics of the human eye.  In 6th grade my science project was a model about how the human eye worked.  I loved this learning and for many years my quest to learn about the mechanics of biology and the human body was a passion for me.

In later years this passion was replaced by a thirst for knowledge about business and how business mechanics work.  As in almost everything, I learned that business is part science and part art.  Truth is there is a lot of science and mechanics in art and the more you know about this the better the art – - no matter what profession you choose.

One very important thing I’ve learned over the past 20 years is that we do not “see” with our eyes.  Let me say it again because it is so important to everything you do.  You do not see with your eyes.

 The human body exists as a closed system and therefore the best we can do is to interpret our environment.  It is a fascinating and complex study with not enough room in this space to fully explore it, but I encourage you to explore it.  One of the best sources for this knowledge is The Aji Network (www.aji.com) where I’ve studied for more than 20 years now.  How we cope as human beings is through language.  When you “see” something your brain is already fired up to language what you see into existence.

Still not sure yet?  I watched a video on TED the other day called “Optical Illusions Show How We See” by Beau Lotto (http://www.ted.com/talks/beau_lotto_optical_illusions_show_how_we_see.html).  It is very entertaining but that’s not what I’m pointing out.  It is a great example of a way to break your common sense orientation and probably smugness that what you see is truth and you’re ready to argue for it and defend your position.  Be prepared to see that it’s your brain, your languaging, your background and context that shape what you see.  The context shapes what is possible for you to notice and see, and your language and distinctions deepen it.  Now a word of caution – after watching this video you will wonder if there is any truth to what you are looking at everywhere.  For the sake of acting, we must agree at some point that what we see is the truth for us and move forward in that interpretation.  Just be aware it is still only an interpretation.

If you have now watched Beau Lotto and are ready to accept that context affects what you see and that your certainty about what you’re looking at may be flawed the question to be pondering is what to do.  Since we have no access to our physical world except through our senses we are left to accept there is no inherent meaning in information.  We are left with a crisis of meaning.  I watch as people describe things all the time and stop short with what this means.  One action to take immediately is to invite new interpretations with a mood of open-mindedness from other competent businesspeople.

Watch out for convincing yourself to follow your instincts, or common sense, or following your gut.  All these internal conversations can lead to action based on shallow or vague interpretations caused by what you “see”.  When I hold meetings I bring in people from different disciplines and backgrounds.  I do this because I don’t need more people that think like I do, or see what I do.  I want people who see things differently and then work to blend this into new offers, practices and solutions.

The very first thing we do is to notice things.  But something has to happen before you notice anything.  First you have a story about something or you are perturbed in the moment.  For instance if a vase breaks you notice it.  You hear the sound and then you develop a story – “the vase just broke”.  Once you notice things you can observe them.  Observing things takes distinctions, and the richer your distinctions the more powerful your interpretations.  Once again it’s not your eyes but your narratives and distinctions that produce your interpretation of what you just saw.  My wife and I can attend the same wedding, but we don’t “see” the same things.  She may point out flower arrangements that until she said something did not exist for me.  She then may further talk about the types of flowers, the vases, the height – all kinds of distinctions important to produce a specified outcome that I can now see as I listen to her story and distinctions.

For today – don’t “see” with your eyes.  Use language to see and collaborate with others to expand what you begin to notice and observe.  Work and study to get 3 new distinctions today relative to fulfilling your ambition and company mission.  Challenge your existing interpretations and look for how they are shaped by the context of the situation.  What could you modify, quit or start that would improve the situation?

 

 

 

Coordination and Cooperation – A Competitive Advantage?

Have you noticed how difficult it is to coordinate with other people? Do you find yourself calling back several times or double-checking to ensure they remember about a commitment? Do you wonder of the service person is ever going to show up? Is it you or the other person?

Perhaps I’m noticing it more or perhaps I’m less patient but I’ve encountered multiple situations where I find myself either waiting for someone to arrive or calling to verify the commitment. I’ve received a message something like, “Oh didn’t I get back to you on that one?” or “Did you send me an email, I don’t see it…oh there it is.”

When I encounter situations like this with several people I begin to look at our culture. I was once told – don’t get angry with people, get upset with the culture. After all we are all just a manifestation of the culture we live in. This is difficult to see for ourselves and a subject for another time – but for now accept this as a fact. If you lived somewhere else and had been there for years you would embody a very different set of practices, ethics, traditions and habits. I find that many times competitive advantage lives in small details. This is one of those times where people who coordinate and cooperate well produce a competitive advantage. This looks like something then we all should pay attention to.

People are assessing situations and other people all the time. It begins when you walk into a room, speak on a call, email or text someone. It continues with how you dress or how you speak – there is not a moment you are not being assessed. My business partner and I set a breakfast meeting with someone and we arrived early, ready to engage and help. They arrived about 10 minutes late. They did not call or text to alert us, and moved at their arrival with certain hubris, conceit and arrogance. Did our assessment of this person begin there – you bet it did. Costs are not just dollars. Cost is an assessment of time, energy, money and lost opportunities. Their late arrival cost us and their willingness to shift the costs to us was readily apparent. Don’t be high cost to others and don’t shift costs to prospects or customers. They do notice and judge.

There is a difference between cooperating where you have shared concerns and coordinating where you may not share the concerns but still move to keep the action going and low cost. If you are going to cooperate or coordinate you need to know what people care about and what their concerns are. People’s concerns are predictable. There are fundamental concerns that we all are and move in all the time. We all are the concern for eating. We all are the concern for rest. We all are the concern for help. When you “have” these concerns you develop narratives about them. We all are the concern for capacity. Nobody has unlimited capacity. When you don’t coordinate or cooperate well you reduce capacity for someone and you are high cost. Make a commitment to “have” the concern for capacity and respect it for yourself and other people.

I have worked with many people on increasing their capacity. One of the basic practices I recommend is to make an assessment about your capacity required when you commit to a certain action. Do you assess how much time the commitment you just made will take you? Cooking is a great practice for assessing time and sequence. If you are responsible for producing a multiple course dinner to be served at 6pm, what do you need to do? One thing you must know is cooking times and when to start and stop each part. Otherwise you will never meet the 6pm commitment and most certainly won’t have all of the servings out in time and warm. If you’ve never had this experience make a commitment to cook dinner sometime.

Business is no different. You need to know how much time each commitment, project or standard practice requires and what sequence they need to follow. Start by not just producing a list of “to do’s” but instead the commitments you are making, how much time it will take, what help you will need to get it done and then get this on your calendar. Really – book it!

Wouldn’t it be great when you call for service on something if they said they would arrive at 1pm and actually arrive at 1pm instead of the Noon to 5pm range? Would this be a competitive advantage and save you cost? Would this be valuable to you? How about you work the same way – - make and hold commitments that other people hold casually or are unable to keep, be low cost and high value and use coordinating and cooperating as a competitive advantage in a culture that does not see it.

Focus on Completing – then Start Again

It’s very important to complete things.  So much of what we do seems to go on and on and on.  Not only is this very high cost, it’s also very frustrating.  As human beings we need to finish things and to both acknowledge and be acknowledged for finishing it.

I read a number of books written by Robert Grudin, an associate professor of English at the University of Oregon and also had the opportunity to hear him speak.  He talked about doing things with your hands.  Paint or do woodwork or garden.  There are any number of things you can do that take you away from your computer.  Yes this is the age of knowledge but that does not mean abandon creating things with your hands.  It can also be a lot of fun.  I always loved cutting our lawn.  It was something I could begin and finish and at the end it was something I really enjoyed looking at.

Let’s extend this to the workplace.  It’s essential to complete things.  Another time I’ll say more about projects but for now you should know that projects are extraordinarily powerful.  They are so powerful that I made sure my management team was fully loaded with projects.  That’s where I got into trouble.  These projects seemed to never end, and our margins went down and cost up.  You see projects are very costly with no guarantee of success.  I was confused for a bit until I realized what was happening.  I had produced the never-ending projects and they needed to be completed or stopped.  The good news was that we were able to quickly shift to assess what needed to be done to complete these projects.  From then on our focus was on starting AND completing them.

One of the management practices I recommend is doing a weekly “tune” with your senior customers.  I always begin the tune with a dialogue about what was accomplished from the prior week.  I do this for two reasons.  One is to keep attention on working together to bring things to completion, finish them.  The second reason is to celebrate and acknowledge the completion.  People like to know that something they completed was noticed and that a good job was done.  It’s great to pause and declare completion – much like finishing my lawn.

I’ve also watched people short-cut completion.  You know the old “rebound” effect when you end a relationship.  Sometimes you grab at the first thing and never really took the time and space to allow yourself to complete the old relationship.  When I sold our first company it took many months for me to be complete.  I had great coaches around me who helped me to generate the conversations and thinking to allow myself to be finished with that achievement.  It was a really wonderful period.

So look for yourself.  What do you currently have in process incomplete that is draining your capacity.  Is it still appropriate?  What can you do to accelerate completing it and what help do you need to do that?  Work towards completion, acknowledgement and celebration for the end.  Then start something else.

One of the interesting things about completion is that it is also the start of the next thing.  Completing something is part of a strategy to the next thing in the sequence.  How you win is to produce a steady stream of new offers and practices. By finishing something you increase capacity for the next action.  And the cycle continues complete – begin – complete – begin.

So sit back today and ask yourself:

What projects do I own that are still open and not complete?

 Are these projects still relevant?

 How can I accelerate completing them and what help do I need?

What does “completion” mean for me?

 When I’m complete what new project will begin and what are the purposes for this project?

 

 

What is your Automatic Listening?

Do you know that who you listen to the most is you?  You speak to yourself all the time, all day long and at night also.  That internal voice never stops and it guides you and advises you.  Now if you pulled Yourself out and stood face to face – - make a truthful assessment if you would or should be listening to that person.

As human beings we are unique in that we language.  How we cope with situations is through language.  That’s a distinct competitive advantage.  At the same time, we have that voice that speaks to us all the time, never ending.   Shhhh – be silent for a moment, pause and notice that voice speaking to you never stops. (Pause)

What that voice is saying is an interpretation of everything you see – past, present and future.  It tells you what you think is happening and you listen.  It is automatic and continuous.  Automatic listening is your listening to yourself.  It is that narrative you are speaking internally about a meeting, a department, a relationship, a job, a request and on and on.  We speak to ourselves using assessments and judgments.

You’ll recognize them;

This meeting is going to be a waste of time. 

I don’t trust they will get the job done to my satisfaction.

That department is high cost and always causes problems.

That department is really efficient and I love engaging with them.

That person is really knowledgeable and I need their help.

I’m not good with numbers and so I’ll avoid anything to do with them.

You have your own version of this.  What is it you keep saying to yourself, sometimes before you even engage or have evidence for these judgments? What did you say before the meeting to yourself about what you were about to encounter and what did you say leaving the meeting about what was accomplished?  By the way it never ends – - you just keep speaking internally to yourself all day long and at night if you’re dreaming.

Once you get your automatic listening is this internal interpretation of situations you can also begin to notice other people’s automatic listening of you.  How do you know what they are speaking internally as they encounter you?  Is it what you intended and how would you know?  Think about how you could produce a different listening if the one produced is not what you intended.

Listening is a skill and that’s why we work on it.  When your internal dialogue gets in the way it will prevent you from producing customer satisfaction.  We list some names for types of listening that might prevent you from powerful listening.  As with all distinctions this is to help you notice your own habits and practices.  If you are a “rehearser” you are always preparing your answer in a meeting and not listening to what other people are saying.  You will miss an opportunity to hear their concerns, offers and requests.

We say “automatic” because it happens all the time and in an instant.  It’s not that you control it.  What we are after first is you notice it and recover.  Before you start a task or attend a meeting what is that internal voice saying about your role, your performance, your identity?  In other words what is your automatic listening of you?

The Practice I used to hold.

I have lost count of how many times I’ve been told, “we used to do that”.  In my work with business owners I encounter the situation where they used to hold some practice and have dropped it.  When asked why they usually don’t have an answer.

What is it that prevents holding a practice that is working well?  My doctor has often told me that people will take his advice, hold his suggested practices for awhile and then decide to drop them – without speaking to him.  Once they begin to feel a little better they stop taking on the practices.  They stop taking the medicine or exercising and find they are feeling sick once again.  Is there something in our human structure that leads us to this destructive behavior?

A practice or practices are named action such as selling, marketing, accounting used to take care of concerns, produce satisfactory situations, acquire new capacities to act or to execute a strategy.  One of the first things to do is to notice what practices you currently hold.  Give them a name and list them.  Take an inventory of them.  Make an assessment if they are working or not.  How would you know?  Next choose if you need to modify, quit or add new practices.  Make sure someone owns the practice and it does not have to be you. All practices still need an owner, someone to drive the action.

Twice in the last month companies I work with reported that they had breakdowns in a project they were doing.  During our review of the breakdowns I asked if they had a “kickoff” meeting to specify the project, all the players, the commitments and resources required, the performers and interim assessments to be made.  You can guess what they said – “we used to do that”.  So there it was.  I asked why they stopped doing it, and the answer “I don’t know”.  I thought maybe it was not working well or effective, but they answered that it was working very well.

Now you can suffer and agonize with wondering why you stopped, what happened and diagnose how this could not possibly be your fault.  Or you can simply commit to the practice once again.  If you have the same concerns, and you are experiencing breakdowns connected to the missing practice just put it back in place.  Remember – velocity matters.

One of the best ways to specify your practices is to put them in time.  This valuable advice came from Stan Leopard (www.stanleopard.com).  Answer the question what is it you need to do daily?  What do you need to do weekly?  What do you need to do monthly, quarterly, annually?  You must eat every day for nourishment.  This is a daily practice.  Once you declare that you can then examine what you eat, the frequency inside the day, the amount you eat, the types of food and more.  You begin to set the standards you hold for eating.  This is no different than any other daily practice you hold.  Do you have daily meetings?  What do you call them and what is the purpose?  Are the meetings effective – how would you know?

I started a new daily practice 3 weeks ago.  Every day I start the day by writing in a journal first what I’m grateful for and then what I want to accomplish that day.  I limit it to 3 things.  I missed writing the other day.  I had all sorts of reasons (excuses) but mostly that I was traveling.  What I did was start over the next morning.  Part of my morning practice is to avoid starting with emails and hold the space for reflection and exercise – mental and physical health essential for my ambition.  How do you start the day?

What daily practices do you hold?  What are your intentions and purposes for these practices?  Get together with other ambitious people and share your practices.  What are they doing?  Adopt them, adapt them for yourself and USE them.  Don’t forget them or just drop them unless they need to be dropped.  There is another set of practices I call “folklore”.  These are the ones that have been in existence for a long time, they still exist and have become purposeless.  They use valuable capacity and have lost their meaning a long time ago.  First notice them and second quit them.

So make a start today.  List your daily practices.  Give them a name and purposes.  Make an assessment about their effectiveness.  Then move to longer time horizons and eventually you will have your inventory of practices.  Dust off those practices you used to have and only drop them by intention and not because your forgot them.